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Chances are unless you are very lucky you will go through many various relationships before you locate your special someone. Finding your soul mate is like gambling. In poker and blackjack you may well have to play dozens of hands until you get a winning one, and it is the same with relationships.

At some point in your life you will probably chance on some people who seem like they could be the one, or that they are close, but still have the feeling that something else is missing. My advice is that if you are not ecstatic, because something seems like it is missing, then it typically is not dead on.

Sooner than I found my special someone, I was in a relationship for in excess of 8 years, and I was of the belief all was fantastic, until I began to seriously consider getting married. Then I noticed that we had so little in common and in actuality wanted so many dissimilar things out of life and one day we both realized there was much about both of us that we each wanted from someone, but it was not us that we wanted.

Then one day I decided I had enough of trying to go to clubs and bars to meet people. I was sick and worn-out of trying to find someone in the period it takes to wrap up a drink. It each time seemed the ladies I would meet were all wide of the mark for me, or they seemed fantastic after chatting to them for 5 minutes but they seemed to have no curiosity in me.

Then one day I had an idea, it was not an unique idea but I decided to use the internet to try to find the precise woman for me. So I proceeded to create a profile on a website. On this page I tried to put the real me and not the funny guy trying to be charming that was searching for love at the bar.

And as I would at the poker rooms I went all in, I poured my heart and soul into this. I wrote what I wanted and wrote down who I sincerely think I am and not who I want to be, and I was rewarded by 1 email responding to my site.

It was incredible; the response I got was like a dream. Imagine you are sitting in a Las Vegas casino playing poker. You are down to your last few dollars, you go all in and you wind up being dealt a Royal Flush, and suddenly the sky is bluer, the grass is greener, and all your uncertainties seem to just wither away.

At first things were a trifling complex for the both of us. We decided to hold off on actually meeting until we got to know each other first. We spent a month just chatting everyday on the internet. You can really open up to someone and reveal to them the real you and not have to be anxious about rejection on the internet, after all you are just a faceless ghost, and if things don’t work out you could be sitting next to her on the bus one day without ever knowing it.

The key to finding happiness is realizing you are going to bust more than you are going to get blackjack, but you have got to keep trying, trying to remember you only need to find the real thing once.

CharmingHope

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